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The Sweetness of Forgetting

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2012

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Chapters 13-17Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 13 Summary

This chapter, from Rose’s point of view, includes a recipe for lemon-grape cheesecake. Rose is confused when Annie visits and says that her mom is in Paris. Rose remembers the day in 1949 when Ted returned from Paris, after Rose had asked him to find out about her family, and told her the terrible news that everyone had died, including Jacob. She believed him. Ted was a wonderful husband to her and a father to Josephine, and Rose had cared for him. She met other survivors in New York who told her also that Jacob had died. Rose then agreed to move to Cape Cod to focus on what family she had left. She feels that it was her fault that her family died because she did not manage to warn them. When Ted told her that Jacob died, Rose felt that the world became very cold, and she died inside. She went to the roof that night and found the stars she had named after her family, but she did not see a star for Jacob.

Chapter 14 Summary

In Paris, Hope walks with Alain and watches the stars come out. Alain says that he will return to Cape Cod with her. He tells Hope how Jacob and Rose met at the end of 1940, after Paris was occupied by the Germans. Theirs was love at first sight. Jacob worked for the resistance and tried to warn Rose’s father of increasing persecution against Jews. Alain last saw Jacob in 1952, right before he left for America. Hope calls home and learns that Mamie has had a stroke. Gavin is at the hospital with Annie. Alain arranges plane tickets for both of them. The morning of their flight, two of Alain’s friends visit. Both have tattoos from Auschwitz. They were fond of Rose and ask Hope about her life. She tells them about the bakery. Some of the pastries she mentions are not traditional Jewish recipes but instead sound like Muslim recipes. The men decide to take Hope to visit the Grand Mosque.

Chapter 15 Summary

There are rumors that Muslim people in Paris saved many Jews during the war, helping children escape to free zones. The Grand Mosque reminds Hope of Notre Dame Cathedral, making her recall Mamie’s words that they all worship the same God. Hope finds a bakery and recognizes several items that she makes at the North Star, including crescent moons, pistachio cakes, and baklava. Hope tells the baker about the Star Pies that she makes, and Alain says that is his mother’s recipe. This bakery makes them also.

They visit a man, Nabi, who learned the recipe from Rose. Nabi explains that Rose lived with his family for two months and worked with them in their bakery, sharing recipes. Hope realizes that the star shape of the pies is a tribute to Jacob, who promised to love Rose as long as there were stars in the sky. They guess that Rose was given false papers and smuggled out of France to Spain, where she met Ted. Alain and Nabi find connections in the beliefs that their religions share about helping others. Nabi shows them a photograph, and Hope is surprised to realize that Rose was pregnant in Paris. Hope wonders if her grandmother sent her to Paris not only so that Hope would learn her story but also “learn something about love from all this” (180).

Chapter 16 Summary

Rose’s chapter begins with a recipe for anise and fennel cakes. As she has had her stroke, Rose floats into memories of the night she tried to persuade her father to leave Paris. Her father did not believe that the Nazis and the French police would come for their family. Rose was distraught when he refused to flee. To keep her child safe, she went with a Christian friend, Jean Michel, to the Grand Mosque. The Haddam family was kind to her, and Rose exchanged recipes as she worked in their bakery. She said the Islamic prayers with the family and agreed when their son, Nabi, suggested that they are all praying to the same God.

Chapter 17 Summary

On the flight to the States, Hope and Alain discuss what happened to Rose’s baby, since she was pregnant in 1942 and Josephine’s birth certificate says that she was born in 1944. Alain says that many survivors tried to marry and have children right away, to be part of a family again after they’d lost everyone they loved.

At the hospital, Hope finds that Rob is not looking after Annie, but Gavin is. Annie meets Alain and asks him who Leona is, but he doesn’t know. The nurse allows them a few moments to see Mamie. Annie wants to find Jacob Levy, but her innocent belief in true love clashes with Hope’s more jaded view. Alain suggests that it is difficult to accept love if one has been hurt many times before. He tells Hope: “The more times we’ve been hurt, the harder it is to see love right in front of us, or to accept love into our hearts and truly believe in it. And if you cannot accept love, or cannot bring yourself to believe in it, you can never really feel it” (201). Hope understands Mamie’s wish to protect her child because she married Rob for Annie’s sake. She feels sad for her grandfather, who was devoted to his family but didn’t have Rose’s whole heart. Alain says that it is never too late to find true love. Annie comes up with a list of phone numbers and starts calling all of them, asking about Jacob Levy.

Chapters 13-17 Analysis

These chapters reveal more of the family legacy: Hope discovers her great-uncle Alain, and the narrative reveals more about the Picards who lost their lives at Auschwitz. These chapters also acknowledge the difficulty of surviving trauma. Rose, meeting survivors who have come to New York City after the war, thinks of them as ghosts; they have been robbed of their lives and souls. Alain speaks to how difficult it was for survivors to try to rebuild their lives after losing so much during the war; the tattoos on his friends, which were given to each inmate of the concentration camps, signify the lasting scars from such an experience.

Rose herself becomes a kind of ghost after she learns that her family, as well as Jacob, died in the camps. Though she cares for her husband and wants to protect her daughter, she fears that she became cold and closed off from the blame and guilt she felt for not being able to convince her family to leave Paris before the roundup. This coldness is the legacy that she fears she left to her daughter and, through her, to Hope. This creates another parallel between Hope and Rose, who each struggle with their relationships with their daughters due to their lack of faith in love.

These chapters explore religious unity and the obligation to help those in need. Rose confused Hope with her statement that she is Jewish, Muslim, and Christian, and her declaration that the God was the same. This declaration begins to make sense as Hope, with the help of others who knew Rose, pieces together the story of Rose’s flight from her family home the night before the roundup. Rose’s chapter then supplies the backstory, using flashbacks to explain how Rose escaped Paris, made a connection with the Haddam family, and secured this connection with the exchange of pastry recipes. This novel about the drastic consequences of religious intolerance hence shines a light on the benefits of religious unity and helping others.

The theme of Love and Self-Sacrifice becomes clearer in this section. Rose and Jacob’s connection is described as a great, once-in-a-lifetime love, and the star becomes more significant as a symbol because Hope learns that it represents a connection to Jacob. Hope understands what this must have meant to her grandfather, who made sacrifices of his own to build a family. Suspense arises around the question of why Ted told Rose that Jacob died when Jacob was trying to find Rose.

These questions make Hope doubt that such love really exists. Alain expresses a wisdom that will be echoed later by Gavin when he tells Hope that hurt makes it harder to love, but it is never too late to learn. Hope expects betrayal from men, a belief confirmed by Rob’s failure to support Annie while Mamie is in the hospital. She continues to resist the signs of Gavin’s interest, but Alain is the first man from whom Hope can graciously accept help. These details build romantic tension, particularly given the conflicting romantic forces of Rob, Matt, and Gavin.

Mamie’s coma is a plot device that Harmel uses both to prompt lyrical reflection in her chapters, as there is a sense of her being out of the present time and back in the past, and to build suspense since Mamie is not lucid enough to observe what is happening around her. Mamie’s stroke defers the possibility of reconciliation with Alain, which matches the deferral of reconciliation with Jacob, whose fate is yet in question.

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